a mother's manifesto


Thank you for motherhood.
Thank you for the good days, the medium days and the hard days.
Thank you for the little ones under my care.
Thank you for the gift of being a mom.

Let me remember.
Let me remember to not keep a record of wrongs.
Let me remember to not define self based on past.
Let me remember to learn from mistakes, but not dwell on mistakes.
Let me remember that their hearts matter more than the perfect house.
Let me remember that being a mother means growing.


Let me see.
Let me see the little things.
Let me see the good first.
Let me see the wonder.
Let me see each child for who they are.
Let me see what has been done not what needs to be done.
Let me see all that I do.

Let me listen.
Let me listen attentively.
Let me listen and seek their hearts.
Let me listen for the I love you moments in life.


Let me speak truth.
Let me speak after I seek to understand.
Let me speak boldly.
Let me speak with conviction.

Let me be awake.
Let me keep first priorities first.
Let me seek the joy in the every day beauty of motherhood.
Let me live fully alive.


Let me live knowing that being a mom matters.

Let me value the gift of time.
Let me value the gift of today.
Let me value the gift of now.
Let me value the gift of them.

Let me be proud in being a mom.
Let me not take it for granted.
Let me not get stuck in comparing.
Let me be humble and full of grace.


Never let me short change the value of being a mom.

Let my heart be a
courageous joy-filled laughter seeking real loving intentional gentle
fighting tender determined beautiful authentic
mother's heart.

Thank you for the precious gift of motherhood.
Thank you for each new day.
Thank you for letting me be known as their mom.


Mothers, all of you, and for all that you do, thank you.
You are simply amazing.

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9 comments:

Kassie said...

Beautiful.
Let me be thankful for it all.
Motherhood is the greatest joy.

Lisa said...

Oh Rachel, this is absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing your heart.

By Word of Mouth Musings said...

You.are.awesome.
And me. My life is filled to the brim because you came into it xxx

shifra said...

Thank you!

Lynn said...

Believe it or not, it's even more amazing the second time around with grands! Oh, and in response to your post on Friday:
Big A, little a, what begins with a? Aunt Annie's alligator...a, a, a!...
Big Y little Y yawning yellow yak...young Yolanda Yorgenson is yelling on his back!
Praying!
Psalms 5:1-3 Give ear to my words, O LORD, consider my meditation. Hearken unto the voice of my cry, my King, and my God: for unto thee will I pray. My voice shalt thou hear in the morning, O LORD; in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and will look up.
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Lynn said...

Oh...and then there's "Grandma Tildy lived all alone. She worked hard every day! She had no time to play! On day a man came to her house. He was selling pets! "Would you like to buy a canary bird?" asked the man? "Okay" said Grandma Tildy, "but NO ELEPHANTS!"

Susi said...

Thank you for this. I hope you had a wonderful Mother's Day.

Julia said...

Absolutely beautiful. I will have to bookmark this.

Michelle said...

Another perfect post that hits home. This is a favorite.

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